Where Did My Energy Go?
Shell here: If you have been following our blog for a while, you know that cancer stormed into our home; ravaged it; destroyed my husband; […]
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Miss Him So Much It Hurts
Shell here! The grief journey can suck most of the time. Some days you can be okay and go about your day like a normal […]
My Rockin’ Papa
Jay here! My mom’s dad (I called him Papa) died two weeks after my dad. It was kind of sudden–he was suddenly incapacitated, and then […]
Balancing Teen Years with Grief
Jay here! While my grief is still a part of my life, I still face regular teenager struggles too. It’s not the issues of dating […]
How did I survive?
Shell here! Jay and I have been dedicating a lot of time to writing our book. Reliving the cancer journey with our writing has been […]
Moving Forward
Shell Here! When Art first died, I wanted to move away. My motives were very obvious because two hours after they took his lifeless, cold […]
Father’s Day 2020
Jay here! Ah, Father’s Day. The day full of awkwardness. Father’s Day has always been weird for me because it is so close to my […]
Graduation 2020
Jay here! I am so proud of my mom! Growing up, Shell was just my mom and my dad’s wife. She was fantastic at it, […]
Change is Constant
Shell here! Hello everyone, Jay and I have been struggling with what to write about lately in our blog. With the world in chaos, sometimes […]
Dying is easy… Living is harder
Shell’s Perspective Hello everyone! Jay spent some time this weekend writing this post for you. We both have been busy trying to get our schoolwork […]